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No words at nearly two with good understanding and play?

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Bumblingg · 02/06/2026 20:36

Just wondering if anyone has had a child with a similar profile at nearly 2?

My little boy has no words yet. He points, uses signs, understands lots of what we say, loves pretend play, is really affectionate and has a great sense of humour. He enjoys building things and seems to learn new skills all the time.

He also has some oral-motor issues, dribbles a lot, has an open-mouth posture and a high palate.

One thing that’s been worrying me is that his babbling has been quite inconsistent. He’s had periods where it seemed to reduce or disappear, then come back again. At the moment he’s babbling quite a lot.

We’re currently waiting to see specialists and neurology has been mentioned. There has also been some discussion around whether genetic testing might be needed, which has completely sent my anxiety into overdrive if I’m honest.

Some days I think it’s “just” a speech delay, and other days I end up convincing myself it’s something much more serious.

I’d really love to hear from anyone whose child had no words at 2 but had good understanding, pointed, signed, played imaginatively and was socially engaged.

Did speech eventually come?
Did your child end up having a diagnosis?
Was neurology/genetics ever involved and, if so, what was the outcome?

Just looking for experiences while we wait, as the uncertainty is really hard.

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Nelly44 · 02/06/2026 22:45

Sounds like he would benefit from a speech and language therapist based on his oral motor difficulties as this will impact on speech sounds. It sounds like he’s doing great in other areas so try not to overthink it at this stage

ExplodingSmittens · 03/06/2026 08:17

I think that babbling can be inconsistent with a lot of DC. Usually they can put a skill like talking essentially “on pause” if they are concentrating on a different skill like crawling or walking.

He does sound really lovely. My DC2 has AuDHD and is one of the funniest people I know. Their sense of humour is fantastic.

Is he currently under iscan? Do you know how long you’ve got to wait?

And have they recommended applying now for his ECHP and for DLA?

Both of these are needs based so you don’t need to wait for a diagnosis, if there is one coming. If you need any advice on applying for either of those two then I’d ask in the SN Section as there are lots of experienced MNers in there Flowers

EHC needs assessments

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https://www.ipsea.org.uk/ehc-needs-assessments

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