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Non verbal 2 year old

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Tinkeringg · 19/05/2026 00:40

Hi everyone, I’m looking for some advice/reassurance from parents with similar experiences.

My little boy is 23 months old and currently non verbal. He’s very social, affectionate, engaging, understands lots, uses eye contact well and communicates through signs/gestures. His other development seems on track.

What concerns me is that he has no consistent words, struggles to imitate sounds, and will occasionally make a sound once and then never do it again. He mostly says “uh” for everything. He also drools and often has an open mouth posture.

We’ve had hearing checked, seen an SLT, and are using AAC/signs and all the usual speech strategies consistently.

I keep being told to “wait and see,” but I’m starting to wonder about childhood apraxia of speech/verbal dyspraxia because of the inconsistency and lack of progress.

Did anyone else’s child present similarly at this age? What was the eventual outcome?

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TinyMouseTheatre · 19/05/2026 06:57

Is it the HV who has told you to “wait and see”? When is she due to see you again @Tinkeringg?

Tinkeringg · 19/05/2026 16:55

TinyMouseTheatre · 19/05/2026 06:57

Is it the HV who has told you to “wait and see”? When is she due to see you again @Tinkeringg?

It was the speech therapist

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anxiouslywaiting8 · 20/05/2026 13:49

Well if hes under SALT already then they will know if he has any other issues. They are the experts surely. Have you brought your concerns to them?

TinyMouseTheatre · 20/05/2026 20:21

anxiouslywaiting8 · 20/05/2026 13:49

Well if hes under SALT already then they will know if he has any other issues. They are the experts surely. Have you brought your concerns to them?

Well they managed to totally miss that both of my two are ND! Smile

anxiouslywaiting8 · 21/05/2026 08:57

TinyMouseTheatre · 20/05/2026 20:21

Well they managed to totally miss that both of my two are ND! Smile

SALT cannot diagnose autism though, only a doctor can.

TinyMouseTheatre · 21/05/2026 17:14

anxiouslywaiting8 · 21/05/2026 08:57

SALT cannot diagnose autism though, only a doctor can.

I understand that perfectly, but they can refer.

Tinkeringg · 23/05/2026 14:07

anxiouslywaiting8 · 20/05/2026 13:49

Well if hes under SALT already then they will know if he has any other issues. They are the experts surely. Have you brought your concerns to them?

Yes they’ve said it’s too early to tell and sometimes you never know the reason but that he’s not showing any signs of autism

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TinyMouseTheatre · Yesterday 08:54

If it was SaLT who suggested the “wait and see” approach, has your LO had their 2 year check with their HV yet? And if so, did she ask you to fill in the 24 month Social & Emotional Ages & Stages?

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