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Nearly 2, socially engaged but no words yet, anyone experienced similar?

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Lollypopin · 13/05/2026 18:54

Just looking for some advice/reassurance from anyone who’s been through similar ❤️

My little boy is almost 2. He’s really social, lovely, affectionate and engaging. He initiates interaction, loves people, understands lots, and all his other development seems on track.

But he still doesn’t say any words at all — not even consistent animal noises or play sounds. He’s had his hearing checked and that was all fine.

We’ve seen speech therapy and AAC was suggested, but there’s no regular therapy at the moment. We’ve also been consistently using all the strategies the speech therapist suggested for over 6 months now.

Since he was born we’ve constantly read to him, sung to him, talked to him, engaged with him, played with him, and taken him to groups/classes, so I don’t feel like it’s a lack of interaction or stimulation.

He’s also been using signs since around 9–10 months old. Very occasionally he’ll do an animal noise or sound once, and then not do it again for months. Sometimes it honestly feels more like regression than progress, which is what worries me.

Everyone keeps telling me to “wait and see” but I just have this feeling that it’s more than just being a late talker.

I think what confuses me is that he’s so connected socially and seems bright in every other way.

Would really appreciate hearing from parents whose children were similar around this age. Did speech come later? Was there eventually a diagnosis or was it just a speech delay? Did anything help?

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NJJT · 14/05/2026 00:32

@Lollypopin I can’t offer any insight as to how this may go but quite similar situation here.
What was he like as a younger baby in terms of noises/babbling etc? My little boy was very quiet.
I do see some other traits though so I have raised concerns with HV.
He can be very engaged during play and loves interaction when initiated. He doesn’t really seek it out though he is generally content doing his own thing.

hollygoolightly · 14/05/2026 07:41

Can he point with index finger to things he wants? Can he point to something he wants to show you and look at you so you can see it too? Does he follow instructions without a visual clue, like go and get your shoes, or can you find the dog? Can he point to two body parts? If so, I wouldn't be worried about the speech. Understanding is far more important at this age.

MDDR · 14/05/2026 08:03

Lollypopin · 13/05/2026 18:54

Just looking for some advice/reassurance from anyone who’s been through similar ❤️

My little boy is almost 2. He’s really social, lovely, affectionate and engaging. He initiates interaction, loves people, understands lots, and all his other development seems on track.

But he still doesn’t say any words at all — not even consistent animal noises or play sounds. He’s had his hearing checked and that was all fine.

We’ve seen speech therapy and AAC was suggested, but there’s no regular therapy at the moment. We’ve also been consistently using all the strategies the speech therapist suggested for over 6 months now.

Since he was born we’ve constantly read to him, sung to him, talked to him, engaged with him, played with him, and taken him to groups/classes, so I don’t feel like it’s a lack of interaction or stimulation.

He’s also been using signs since around 9–10 months old. Very occasionally he’ll do an animal noise or sound once, and then not do it again for months. Sometimes it honestly feels more like regression than progress, which is what worries me.

Everyone keeps telling me to “wait and see” but I just have this feeling that it’s more than just being a late talker.

I think what confuses me is that he’s so connected socially and seems bright in every other way.

Would really appreciate hearing from parents whose children were similar around this age. Did speech come later? Was there eventually a diagnosis or was it just a speech delay? Did anything help?

How does he do with this?

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skkyelark · Yesterday 11:45

A close friend's child was like this – good understanding, socially engaged, but no words until around 2. In their case, it was apparently 'just a speech delay', and the child is in primary school, chattering away just fine.

Do you happen to know when you and dad spoke, or any siblings, nieces, nephews? Late speech is fairly common in my friend's family, so it wasn't entirely a surprise.

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