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10-month-old with delays and stereotypies – looking for advice

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irinakkk · 18/11/2025 12:52

Hello,
Our baby is 10 months old and from a very early age we noticed some physical delays (he had difficulty lifting his head, started crawling late, and even now, for the past two weeks, he only crawls on all fours from time to time). He was diagnosed with muscle hypotonia, but we were told that everything else is fine. After physiotherapy he started progressing quickly, and they say that he is now doing things appropriate for his age.

What really worries us is that he has had stereotypical behaviors (stimming) since he was very young, such as kicking his legs (rubbing or hitting them, which is especially intense when he is sitting on a chair or by himself). For the past month he has also been shaking his head left and right, but he does this when I get excited about something he does, or when I turn my head in front of him (he imitates me), though not only in those situations…

Overall, he is quite social, he is not afraid of people and constantly seeks interaction. According to the doctors, he has very good eye contact. He imitates sounds and gestures (sometimes he waves goodbye). Another issue is that he growls constantly… regardless of the situation, the growling is continuous… (people turn around to see what is happening). He eats well, eats everything, and has no sleep problems.

Another unusual thing is that he cannot really be carried in arms because he constantly moves and leans, and overall it’s difficult to hold him. He is still too young for a diagnosis, but I would really appreciate hearing your opinion, because there are quite a few red flags

Thank you in advance.

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SleafordSods · 18/11/2025 20:14

I can understand you being worried with his previous delays and being diagnosed wirh hypotonia.

Some things do sound fairly normal baby behaviour. Lots do things like kick their legs. “Stimming” is only really a concern after around 18 months.

Other things, like constant growling might be worth monitoring.

Does your HV see him regularly and have they booked the 12 month check with you yet?

irinakkk · 19/11/2025 09:39

SleafordSods · 18/11/2025 20:14

I can understand you being worried with his previous delays and being diagnosed wirh hypotonia.

Some things do sound fairly normal baby behaviour. Lots do things like kick their legs. “Stimming” is only really a concern after around 18 months.

Other things, like constant growling might be worth monitoring.

Does your HV see him regularly and have they booked the 12 month check with you yet?

Yes, we have check-ups almost every month because we are not in the UK, and things are a bit different for us. They keep telling us that they don’t see anything at all concerning with him. He is very sociable — he even gets extremely excited around babies and young children and seeks contact with them.
What worries me is only the stimming, because it seems to show up in many different ways. I’ve read a lot on the topic, and overall most parents share that the first thing they noticed in their children with ASD was the stimming. This is extremely important, even though it’s said that they can outgrow it if it’s been happening for a long time (a few months) in our case — but most likely he won’t outgrow it :( and maybe we are talking about ASD.

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WorriedMama2025 · 27/12/2025 22:29

@SleafordSods can I pls ask why growling needs to be monitored?

(I have numerous developmental concerns for my baby, one being that he is always just growling! - isn’t babbling even though he should be by now!)

SleafordSods · 28/12/2025 06:49

WorriedMama2025 · 27/12/2025 22:29

@SleafordSods can I pls ask why growling needs to be monitored?

(I have numerous developmental concerns for my baby, one being that he is always just growling! - isn’t babbling even though he should be by now!)

I would keep an eye on the growling because I think it’s atypical communication development?

WorriedMama2025 · 28/12/2025 08:54

thank you @SleafordSods (wasn’t aware of this) … does explain LO’s delay in communication as no babbling at all still… confirms my suspicions of delays / development issues

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