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At what age is speech therapy helpful?

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used2bthin · 28/05/2008 22:23

My DD is only 20 m so early days but the doctor asked me to return in a month if her speech hadn't progressed. Well it hasn't but I am wondering if there is much point going back because we are still waiting for an appointment about her hearing and anyway what can the doctor actually do? Unless she would refer her for speech therapy but is she a bit young for that anyway?

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swampster · 28/05/2008 22:28

Don't know anything about this but that doctor sounds like she needs a good kicking for worrying you unnecessarily!!! Speech develops at different paces for everybody and 20 months sounds far too early to be identifying a 'problem'.

used2bthin · 28/05/2008 22:33

Oh thank you I thought she may have been being a bit over the top, she is a very thorough kid of a doctor come to think of it so may have just been covering herself. I think her concern was that DD has lost some/most of the words she used to have but then it seems possible that she has temporarily stopped saying them while she focuses on other things? She hasn't said some of them for six months or so though. I go between thinking its so over the top to even worry, to thinking actually she isn't saying nearly enough!

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CaptainUnderpants · 28/05/2008 22:46

A bit harsh there about the Gp ! they are damned if they do and damned if they dont.

Go back to the GP and ask her what she intends to do about it if she thinks its a problem .

I do agree that a SALT my not look at your DD at this age , it is important to get the hearing test done as if there is a speech problem much of it can be resolved with the hearing.

At least the GP is caring .

moondog · 28/05/2008 22:50

As a salt, I would state that most GPs over refer (as do HVs).As a result,departments are swamped with inappropriate referrals that have to be honoured.

Impossible to say on what grounds GP has referred your child but it's true about them being damned whatever they do.

KerryMum · 28/05/2008 22:50

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jingleyjen · 28/05/2008 22:55

DS2 is 20 months, we just have Mama, Dada, juice, up, down, yes, no, bye, shoes, fish, and alot of chatting (nonsense) and pointing.

If anyone suggested speech therapy I would say no at the moment.

used2bthin · 28/05/2008 22:59

Thanks all, I thought that 20m was a bit young but thought I'd check in case intervention before a certain age was the norm. Moondog, she hasn't mentioned speech therapy as yet I just thought that must be what she meant when she said to come back in a month if no improvement but I could have been wrong? This hearing test seems to be taking ages to come through(she was referred a month ago). The doctor found bubbles in her ear so thought it could be glue ear. DD has a lot of medical issues including a genetic condition which is rare enough that GPs aren't usually very confident about knowing what to do with her so I think it could have been a case of being very cautious as is often the case with DD. On the up side it means she gets careful attention!

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used2bthin · 28/05/2008 23:01

Kerrymum I think my HV said similar except maybe she said two years when I asked a while ago at what point they worry.

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CaptainUnderpants · 28/05/2008 23:03

You might be waiting another couple of months for a hearing test so dont hold your breath !

Go back to the GP you never know if there is a history she may push the hearing test along for you .

used2bthin · 28/05/2008 23:04

JJ DD doesn't say that much, she used to say cat, nose, more or at least she seemed to say them appropriately. But now she just says one phrase/sound for EVERYTHING,constantly, all day long! Oh except sometimes she'll say mum mum or Dada. She does point a lot though and generally I know what she means so I'm hoping she just hasn't felt the need to talk yet iyswim. Bit odd about stopping saying stuff though?

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used2bthin · 28/05/2008 23:07

CaptainUnderpants I hadn't thought of it that way. It seems a bit unnecessary somehow but then she did tell me to go back if nothing had changed...or I suppose I could just call the HV.

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used2bthin · 29/05/2008 21:07

Just got the hearing test through, its was when we are on holiday, typical! Anyway I rang and changed it and now she is going in July so not too long. Poor thing has then got three hospital appointments in the space of one week, one the week before, three of which will involve quite difficult procedures for someone her age, hope the hearing one isn't stressful too.

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TotalChaos · 29/05/2008 22:19

In Liverpool it is very hard to get a referral for a child under 3. Which meant I ended up with 36 month old with severely delayed speech having to wait a further 8 months for the initial assessment appointment. Far better IME for a child to have a potentially unnecessary referral than for a child like mine to slip the net. Speech therapy is pretty much uninvasive and unobtrusive, so is not going to do a normally developing child any harm at all. There are all sorts of activities that help non-verbal communication (the precursors to speech and conversational skills) that a SALT can do/advise on with a child of this age.

TotalChaos · 29/05/2008 22:20

used2b - when my DS has a hearing test it was pretty low key and unstressful - the doc looked at his ear, then got him to put some wooden men in a boat when he heard certain sounds.

MummyDoIt · 29/05/2008 22:24

DS1 had a severe phonological disorder and started speech therapy at just turned 4. You need to catch it early enough to make sure they don't have serious problems when they start school but, as others have commented, not worry about it too early as they all develop at their own pace. Bear in mind how long waiting lists are in your area. In ours, it takes six months to get an assessment then a further six months to start treatment so, if you want to start treatment at age four, you need to be referred a year earlier. I'd say it's better to get a referral and cancel it if you don't need it than leave it, then have to wait months when you find out you have a problem (apologies to over-worked SALTS but I'm speaking from a parent's perspective). If you can afford it, a private referral is much, much quicker.

used2bthin · 29/05/2008 22:26

Thanks TotalChaos, thats good, she's ok with having her ears looked in at least and I assume they'll make noises or something to see what she hears. They are checking for glue ear too not sure exactly what that involves but probably just looking in her ear too? Poor thing will think she lives there after that week and a half and the other things are not going to be nice for her. Good point about it being better to have intervention that is not necessary than not have it when it is! Also waiting lists may be long here too I suppose. Poor GP may not have even meant speech therapy! I just couldn't think what else she would want us to come back for as she's already reffered her for the hearing tests.

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used2bthin · 29/05/2008 22:30

x post MDI, a year that is a long time to wait! I think I may speak to the health visitor again or ask the GP when we are next there about it. I'm thinking though that if something is picked up at the hearing test then things will move from there anyway?

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getbackinyouryurtjimjams · 29/05/2008 22:46

If a child loses words they really should be assessed further. (and I'm sure moondog will agree with me if she comes back to this thread).

The problem with SALT referrals is that they can take a very long time (DS2 who was known to be high risk for all sorts of things waited a year after a referral at 24 months).

used2bthin · 29/05/2008 22:55

The loss of words did seem to be the doctors concern tbh. And it bothers me too, it just seems odd. The HV said about children stopping one skill while they learn new ones which I thought sounded plausable as I know DD stopped clapping and waving while she was learning to walk but some words she hasn't said now in over six months. Sory to hear of all these children having to wait so ong, it seems awaful when it can make such a difference to be seen early.

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getbackinyouryurtjimjams · 29/05/2008 23:01

I'd go back to the doc, say you're concerned about loss of words and get the referrals. The waits for anything are long and if she starts chattering away in the meantime you can always cancel any appointments.

used2bthin · 29/05/2008 23:06

Yes true. I'm worried that people will think I'm inventing things but that is completely irrational because DD has a genetic condition causing parts of her body not to work so it'd be impossible to fake that or the surgery she needs! And she's got psoriasis so again I haven't dreamed that up but I just feel like the medical proffession will be thinking oh her again more things wrong! Oh poor poor DD she is so happy and lovely. At least she is not too aware of the anxiety that goes on around her. I hope not anyway!

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getbackinyouryurtjimjams · 30/05/2008 07:07

Don't worry - losing words is an accepted reason for a referral - and your GP sounds switched on.

used2bthin · 30/05/2008 08:13

Thanks GBIYJJ good advice.

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LeonieD · 30/05/2008 10:14

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used2bthin · 30/05/2008 12:21

Thanks LeonieD and sorry to hear you are having a frustrating wait too. I had DD screeching at me n DA which is the "phrase" she uses, all morning now and am feeling slightly worried that this week at least she has stopped saying oh dear which is what n da had originally changed into. She also says in dere which sometimes we interpret as in there but she says it all the time so its hard to tell. She does say mum mum and occasionally da for Dad but she used to clearly say Daddy so its odd. Hope you get the support you need for your DD LeonieD(and others on here who are waiting).

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