Are your children’s vaccines up to date?

Set a reminder

Please or to access all these features

Behaviour/development

Talk to others about child development and behaviour stages here. You can find more information on our development calendar.

Worried about my 14 month old’s confidence/socialisation

1 reply

Shyallday · 01/07/2025 20:19

My baby has always been very wary of others, even with my parents despite seeing them weekly. She warms up to my parents within 10 minutes but is attached to me in any other social situation e.g baby group. She won’t smile at anyone except us and our parents - even people she has been to baby groups with since she was 2 months old.

Won’t go off and play at groups. Will literally jump on me if she’s sat infront of me and someone walks in the room. Doesn’t want to walk anywhere when out and about - wants to be carried. This applies to a variety of baby groups, not just one.

She goes to nursery 2 days a week and baby groups throughout the week. I feel like she’s well socialised but her confidence just doesn’t reflect this.

I know every baby is different but is there anything I can do to nurture her confidence? I worry it will hold her back in school / making friends etc as she gets older.

OP posts:
Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
SummerFrog25 · 03/07/2025 12:06

Personally I would try not to worry. Just give her the closeness she's 'asking' for. Having that secure strong bond with you will give her the confidence she needs to explore other things as she grows.

Have you asked nursery what she's like there?

I know it's frustrating when you just want to see them happy & enjoying where you are, not clinging to you like a limpet, but this is what she needs right now, just trust what she needs & let her develop the bonds & confidence to explore in her own time. ❤️

New posts on this thread. Refresh page