My DD has always, since a baby, (she’s 2 now) shown shyness towards others and always been very attached to me or my husband.
When someone would walk in the room she’d sometimes cry when she was a baby. This could be anyone from my Mother to a stranger.
As she’s got older she’s more confident but can occasionally not say hello, make funny noises, go silly etc ! Once she “warms” up she’s chatty and fine with anyone.
I know this is completely normal but my MIL has always commented saying how my DD “doesn’t like her”
says how she’s only like this with her
she said it’s taken a long time for my DD to “accept” her
comments how she doesn’t get a hug and kiss everytime from my DD, (sometimes DD just doesn’t want to)
I Also believe my MIL wouldn’t see her as much as other family members and the comment she made of being accepted by my DD frustrated me.
The comments I find are childish by her. I just don’t understand why.