Had to change my mumsnet name for this. DD has younger brothers. She has a stepdad (known since v tiny, no contact with dad). That might not be relevant, but there's the history. She is really moody - suddenly hits a red rage and screams, throws herself on the floor, puts on a weird voice, won't listen to reason etc. She can't stop herself apparently, and doesn't care if she wakes anyone up/ does it in front of us etc. Outside the family, she is lovely. She is also lovely when she is not doing this. last night, her add tried to jolly her out of it and she hit him twice. What should I do? My family (who are too far away to know) suggest she is jealous of the boys, and needs physical affection from us. I am not v tactile with anyone over the age of three. Help? Sorry it's a bit long.