I am divorced from my DS's father. We have a roughly 50:50 split. DS is 8. He misses me a lot and has struggled with this but EXH is adament this is how it should be, mostly things are ok.
DS behaviour seems to be worse when he's with Ex (reported by Ex).
Ex has a horrible temper but it doesn't come out very often. It's partly why I left.
Ex texted me recently to say there had been an incident where he lost his temper and words were exchanged. Since then, I have heard from DS that Ex actually chased him in a rage and had to be 'wrestled' (DS's word) by a male friend who happened to be there. I am deeply concerned by this and I have no idea what to do. I don't wnat anything bad to happen to Ex because I don't think he's an actual danger, but what I hear is that DS is now frightened. As I said, this is not the first incident, but there are very rare.