Hi I have just got home form hospital yesterday after giving birth to dd1.MyDD2 (2.5) has decided she is extremely healous(I knew this may happen) I didn't really have anything planned that I can do to abate this.
I did the present FROM the baby thing, I have currently been letting the 2 of them hold him but am saying no to feeding as I feel this needs to be done by us for various reasons.I made all significant changes to the house/routine months prior to having DS1 so they had no major alterations there.I know whatever I have done that for a bot it will take some settling into but have ran out of ways so far that will help make the settling in period easier for all.(*Especially DS2) I think that overdoing the attention will make it seem as if I think it is a major issue,I am trying to keep things around the house as normal as possible.Any good recommendations for welcoming little man in slowly without a toddler tantrum every 5 mins?-do I ignore, make a fuss, any ideas welcome?Luckily I don't think that she will resent him or harm him in any way.I am having DH help and we are alternating them between us so we don't make any of them jealous if poss.Do I just have to ride the storm???Sorry it's long.