Hi, I'm a FTM to a 13 week old baby boy. He was quite settled as a newborn but has become increasingly unsettled as the weeks have worn on. He is sometimes very smiley but other days will not let me put him down, he just cries and wants to be held in a specific way (upright and facing outwards). On days like this he will not go in the pram or carrier (as this faces him inwards). He is a big baby so it is hard on my arms and back. He is very dribbly and may be teething but does this explain why he won't be put down on his play mat which he usually loves? I am anxious to go to baby groups when he is like this as I worry that I will spend the whole time trying to soothe him and it won't be worth the effort of getting out. I really struggle emotionally when he is fussy all day like he has been recently, and sometimes find myself crying along with him! Is this normal? I think this may also be due to my partner returning to work recently and me giving up breastfeeding so hormones are probably playing a part. Any advice appreciated.