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15 wo DS screams for the best part of the day - driving me to tears. What am I doing wrong?

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Babyisaac · 24/04/2008 18:42

He has pretty much been like this since birth. He won't be put down on his playmat at all. I have to hold him all the time and even that doesn't stop the screaming. I go out as much as possible and he is quite in the baby bjorn but it is just a temporary fix because he screams again when I come home. I'm trying to get him to play with things (I'm worried about his development due to constant screaming) but he isn't interested.

The worst thing is, I take him to various classes and it starts off well but then is usually a screaming fit at some point. He gets overtired and won't sleep. I notice all the other mums with "perfect" babies looking at me in despair. What am I doing wrong? I've even stopped seeing one particular friend with an apparent angel baby as I'm getting tired of her fake sympathy and lack of understanding - constant questioning as to why he's crying. Like I know!!!

Don't get me wrong, I love him to bits and there are very smiley moments during the day (particularly when someone else is there!) He loves to sit in the supermarket trolley but I'm spending a fortune at Sainsburys just for his sake.

Any advice? Please? I really do love him but I just feel as though I'm not enjoying him.

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giantkatestacks · 24/04/2008 21:13

my ds was the same at that age ( and now hes a very bright, communicative 4 year old) what really helped us was having a routine in the end - more for me than for him but then i knew that he was going to have a nap at 9 and 1 and 4 or whatever and it made the day much easier to get through...

it started getting easier when he was weaned...and then much better when he was moving around...

just stick it out - its nothing you're doing and all those perfect babies you're seeing will have their own issues.

snotbuster · 24/04/2008 21:45

You are exactly describing how my DS (now 2.6) was at that age OP! It was awful and I remember crossing the street to avoid a neighbour who had a happy, smiling baby as everytime I bumped into her my DS was screaming his head off. I completely blamed myself and got really down about it.

I would get the silent reflux thing checked out as this is something I've pondered in retrospect. Apart from that, I think the main thing is to ensure that YOU get a break and chance to recharge, even if it's just for a few hours. Ask your DP/Mother/anyone - don't be proud. It's a really hard slog.

Should add that my DS is lovely now, very sweet natured and bright (I think!). Chin up and good luck.

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