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2 year old suddenly doesn't like her cot

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GColdtimer · 24/04/2008 11:19

DD has never been a great sleeper but she has always been great at going to bed. Right from 12 weeks she was in bed by 7, sending herself off to sleep.

Up until last week she would have her milk, have her story, have a cuddle and say "cot please mummy". Bliss. Now, she hates it with a vengeance ("don't like cot, stay with muummy"), thinks up every excuse in the book to try to delay bedtime (done a poo mummy, done a wee-wee, knee hurts, need calpol, hungry, thirsty, more milk, another story, more cuddles etc) and gets really upset when I leave the room (although last night it was more miserably resigned to her fate . And in the morning, instead of playing with her dolls in her cot, she screams blue murder until I go into her. Then she is all smiles.

Is it a stage? Is it separation anxiety? Is it time for a bed? I am just trying to be firm and am hoping it will pass.

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littlelapin · 24/04/2008 11:21

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GColdtimer · 24/04/2008 11:23

Really? that is funny because dd is 2 tomorrow! Do you think it is inbuilt? So, does he get out of his bed or does he stay put?

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SHEENA1 · 24/04/2008 14:57

ur 2yr old still in a cot ! i put my dd in a bed just at christmas she loves it she she refused to go in a cot wen she ws 19 months she just turned 2 there in march

GColdtimer · 24/04/2008 15:58

bless him, dd has nappy rash at the moment too. Is that a 2 thing too I wonder

Right then, grandma offered to buy her a bed for her birthday but she did love her cot and I didn't want to rock the boat. Now, however, might be the time to do it. I will take your lead LL and see what happens.

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Iklboo · 24/04/2008 16:00

DS went into a big boy's bed at just about 2yrs old, with a bed rail. He loves it "mummy this is comfiest ever"

sagitta · 24/04/2008 16:04

twofalls - DD has just started to do this too. She's always been great at going to bed, but now its excuses constantly. Last night it was 'my bum hurts' . I thought it was because new baby is due any day - but is it a bed thing?

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bubblagirl · 24/04/2008 18:24

my ds was 19 mths old and then had huge fights to get him into his cot got him a big boys bed he loved it

got him junior bed was ok for a while then he got to 2 aqnd half no longer liked it didnt want his bed wanted my bed so got him a single bed with safety rail never been better

he loves to spread out junior bed just dint have enough space for him to do so

littlelapin your ds looks so cute

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GColdtimer · 24/04/2008 19:29

well, tonight, she barely let me get to the end of the story before she said "cot now mummy". But, seeing all your two year olds in beds, I might just bite the bullet anyway.

LL - I have got a double futon in dd's room because there is nowhere else for it. I could try her in that.....

sagitta - that is a nightmare with a new baby on the way. I hope for your sake its just a stage, you probably don't want to be settling her into a bed with a newborn around! good luck.

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LenniEd · 24/04/2008 20:17

Dd did the same a couple of weeks ago - moved her into her bed as others have said and went fine. Sleeps better in her bed (more room I think has done it) and doesn't get out - YET!

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tori32 · 24/04/2008 20:56

DD1 moved to a bed at 22mths but got her own midsleeper bed at 2.1y. We have blackout blinds so she never climbs out because she can't see the ladders!! Joking, she didn't get out of the normal double either where she slept before (spare bed).
My dd1 also does the needing toilet routine once we go downstairs etc. It will pass

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