Any advice you can offer would be appreciated. My DN (4) has came to stay last weekend with us. All development seems to be going well and she's a bright, chatty little one. Toilet training was late in my opinion but perhaps fairly normal. She'll be reception in September. Issue I have discovered is that she soils herself, a lot. No wee accidents, and not pooping in her underwear but every time she goes to the bathroom her pants are dirty. Almost like (and I'm sorry TMI) but followed through. Every time. My sil said it happens but because she's never stayed before, I never noticed. Any experience of this? Im changing her pants every time, as I assume her mum does, 4/5 times a day. DN says she doesn't notice, and seems upset that it happened again. Like she doesn't notice. SiL is lovely, but Im not that close with her to feel like I won't offend her. But if you have advice then I could mention something in a roundabout way.