DD6 is struggling a bit with her friendships.
She's popular at school/ extra curricular activities and has tons of play dates and party invites but I can see that her social skills are not as good as they could be.
There is a very high level of conflict in her friendships (but not at all with us at home or family generally).
She does annoy her friends and doesn't care much and can lack empathy (although I know she's very young still). She's not good at 'fitting in' and compromising and gets upset when things don't go her way. She does things which I think she knows will annoy her friends and will do provocative things like refuse to return a greeting or say no to a request rudely (again not at all like this with family)
School have also picked up issues with her social communication skills but as she's very happy and doing well academically at school and very well behaved in terms of following rules and teacher directions they don't have much to say.
I'd like to help her a bit with this but I'm not sure how. DH and I both work in people jobs and have very well honed people skills but she's not reflecting what we model at all.
What sort of support could we get her and where? We are in north London.
Thanks if you got this far