I am posting on here to get some advice. My 2 and a half year old has recently started having major meltdowns in the morning when it’s time to drop her to nursery in the mornings (she goes twice a week) and when it’s time to go to her nans who has her once a week. She won’t get dressed won’t let me brush her teeth everything is a battle she wriggles out my arms gets herself undressed and in the car she cry’s the whole way getting out of her car seat which is so dangerous I’m having to pull over so many times. She goes so red in the face she bites me hits me. But now it’s turned to also when I’m picking her up so I know leaving home is not just the issue as in the evenings now she does not want to come home which is so upsetting for me I have tried everything I don’t understand the patterns of the tantrums she is having or how to help with this. I’ve tried to make evenings at home so fun with new toys so that I can say to her we will do fun things when we get home. So now every morning and every evening is a battle it’s making life extremely hard and I’m not sure if the extent of these tantrums and the fact they’re happening every day morning and night is normal? I’m thinking of making a gp appointment. Any advice or shared similar story’s would be so helpful.