My ds is awaiting an appointment to be assessed for ADHD. I believe he will be diagnosed with ADHD and school have also noticed he is very fidgety and hums a lot. He masks his behaviour at school so even though he's showing some signs at school, not enough for them to make a referral so i made one myself through the dr. Im very patient with ds, for example, if we play a board game and he loses, he will get very upset and throw himself on the floor and i will talk to him and explain that sometimes we win and sometimes we lose and lets play again, dp says im to soft with him and i should just stop playing with him until he learns to not react the way he does. He also hums a lot (i think he's stimming) and unless he's disturbing his baby sister who's sleeping, i wont tell him to stop but dp gets really annoyed and tells him to stop or he'll take his tablet away/cant watch tv (this is when he hums the most). Am i too lenient with ds?