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7yro - is this normal?

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fiskette · 13/02/2024 20:36

Neighbours DD aged 7 moved in a couple of years ago and ever since has always loved playing with my DD (who is a year younger). My DD quite likes this girl but will only play every so often. This girl knocks every day, sometimes multiple times.

This girl has always worried me a little as she seems a bit vulnerable. She's always crushed if DD can't play, and even more upset if DD can play but doesn't want to.

I am fond of her and I think she has many lovely qualities.

Her mom has mentioned to me that she has ADHD and what I've noticed is that she struggles to focus (can't stick to a game or watch a film for eg) and also that she is a bit prone to meltdowns.

Anyway a couple of months ago it's like a switch was flipped. She never calls for DD anymore and when I've seen her in the park or high street she blanks us. Her mom says she's got into screens and just games a lot now.

Is this just girls at 7? My dd isn't fussed but I feel a bit weird about how abruptly everything has shifted. My DD is a year younger and it's hard to imagine her being so changed.

Does this sound like a normal stage of development?

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TayceOnToast · 14/02/2024 21:27

Sounds like maybe her mum felt guilty/embarrassed that she was knocking so often and maybe said something to her? Something like “oh we don’t want to bother them too much” ?? Then distracted her with an iPad.
I can say it’s definitely normal for a 7yo to get sucked into an iPad for hours 🙄

purpleme12 · 18/02/2024 22:12

Has she given up cos you said no to playing so often?

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