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I'm beginning to think I've given birth to a really evil being

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Sparkler · 19/03/2008 17:18

DD1 (8) has just been horrid for months now and it's just getting worse.
I'm sure she's doing it just to get a reaction from me and I'm biting the bait.

For example. I picked her up from school today and she moaned because I told her she had to carry her ruck sack. As we walked up the road she kept nudging her DD2 (6) - ok so a bit of sibling rivalry.
Still walking along I told her she wasn't being very nice again and I told her that I didn't know if she was trying to get a reaction from me but I didn't like the way she was behaving. I told her I thought she was horrid. She answered me back by calling me an idiot and that she was going to hit me.
She wouldn't - she wouldn't get that far I can assure you!
She's always saying things are stupid, I ask her to do something to help and she answers "No!".
I'm just about holding it together at the moment but it's hard. I've hard to walk away so many times from her because I feel like slapping her so hard.
And people tell me it only gets worse.

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TsarChasm · 20/03/2008 17:44

Aww you did right. And it is hard to know how to handle it all sometimes.

My dd is 9 and sometimes comes out of school in a terrible grumpy mood. I just give her a bit of space and a big hug when she's ready. I deliberately don't bite or get drawn into anything. She can be a bit snappy with the other dc too.

They get tired and antsy after a long day at school I guess.

Sparkler · 20/03/2008 19:06
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Expelliarmum · 20/03/2008 19:19

Sparkler, on first page of discussion you mentioned praising your DD as much as you can. I know this goes against the grain but please don't overdo it. My DM was never unstinting in her praise of me when I was growing up which was lovely, but sent me out into the world thinking I was the bees knees and had merely to exist and people would love me! It was a shock to discover it ain't so and when I first realised that some people actually didn't like me it was horrible and my self confidence just evaporated.
I occasionally find myself doing it with my DD and have to remind myself to praise only the praiseworthy!

Expelliarmum · 20/03/2008 19:23

The italics thing didn't work!

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