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My DS grabs his tackle

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theneepsmum · 15/03/2008 15:44

when his nappy is taken off. Not so worried, but what happens if he turns into one of those boys/men who have to hold it all the time? Some friends of mine know a child (5 years) who holds his family jewels and sucks his thumb - ANYWHERE. How do you stop this from happening?

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Are your children’s vaccines up to date?

Set a reminder

littlelapin · 15/03/2008 15:48

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mrsflowerpot · 15/03/2008 15:50

You can't stop it, I'm afraid. It's the beginning of a long and happy friendship.

S1ur · 15/03/2008 15:50

They do. Its true. All of them. Virtually all the time. Nothing you can do.

When they are older you can encourage an idea of things you do at home and things ok for public.

But even then, as you say, some men do it too, so meh.

Desiderata · 15/03/2008 15:53

You can't stop it, neeps. In fact, I'm quite jealous, really. It must be great fun.

Mine does it all the time too. In fact, I've just glanced over at him, and he's doing it now.

GerrardWinstanley · 15/03/2008 15:54

my dd grabs her lady-bits and has a good rummage during nappy changes. I blame gangsta rap culture and am alerting the daily mail.

dizzydixies · 15/03/2008 15:54

was at a sports relief thing yesterday and looked across the line of kids, there were about 16 kids there, 9 of whom were boys, 6 of those standing playing with their willies, one of whom had boths hands down the front of his trousers having a right good rummage

is there a code of something to say 'give it a grab NOW'? am a mother of 2 girls don't know

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theneepsmum · 15/03/2008 15:55

so I have to resign myself to it, well I suppose I ignored his fathers eating habits to the point where I no longer notice the shovelling, so I suppose I will have to ignore this...

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TheApprentice · 15/03/2008 15:56

My ds has been doing this since he was 6 months. I think its healthy!

nippersnappers · 15/03/2008 15:57

DS1 sleeps with one arm round his teddy and the other hand down his PJ bottoms.

DS2 discovered his the other day too.

We need never buy them toys again.

ScoobyDoo · 15/03/2008 15:59

Ds pulls his now & then or has a rummage but not alot.

DD has a nice rummage around when i am changing her nappy or any chance she gets & has a good giggle.

They all do it don't worry

pippypoppypanda · 15/03/2008 15:59

im pmsl at this post. My son also does it and laughs and does it more if I tell him not too!

WanderingTrolley · 15/03/2008 15:59

lol GW

There was a thread recently where a mner noted her ds fiddling furiously onstage during a school concert.

He was 15

Ok, no he wasn't, he was about 4.

Tis normal, but Idon't know any men who hold it all the time, where do they hang out apart from strip joints?

AlexanderPandasmum · 15/03/2008 16:00

Same here. DS constantly does it when I'm changing his nappy. DP seems much more uncomfortable about it than me - I am really only bothered when he's got a soiled nappy and then the hands go down there and get poo on them...yuck!

S1ur · 15/03/2008 16:00

lol gerrad

Should have put it to Dave...

"What are the Tories doing to stop the increase of genital fiddling, will you bringing in a policy? Hard on rummaging and Hard on the causes of rummaging?"

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theneepsmum · 15/03/2008 16:01

Well I don't think its unhealty - just a bit offputting. Its just that I don't know what to ignore, and what to stop. I don't think I can live with pee all over the lav and the bog seat permanently up, but presumably this is a fight that women have been losing since time began.

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theneepsmum · 15/03/2008 16:04

I have a friends whose husband holds his when he's sleeping.

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WanderingTrolley · 15/03/2008 16:06

Oh dear. What he's doing is normal and natural. It's just another body part, and one he can't normally access with a nappy on.

Ignore most of it, only distract him if he draws a crowd.

And install a urinal

S1ur · 15/03/2008 16:07

Yes WT but it is an especially fun body part.

And my GOD can't they bloody stretch it! that really looks like it should hurt.

WanderingTrolley · 15/03/2008 16:20

I know slur.

What's with that pinching the very tip, squeeeeezing and pulling thing they do? Try that on an adult and he won't thank you. That's a mistake I won't be making a fourth time.

S1ur · 15/03/2008 16:21

roffle WT

Walnutshell · 15/03/2008 16:31

Oh it's to be postively encouraged. Otherwise he'll have sexual hangups as an adult leading to unfulfilled relationships, an obsession with porn and nocturnal forays into the red light district.

And you wouldn't want to be responsible for that now, would you?

Walnutshell · 15/03/2008 16:32

creeeeeeeeeeeasing at WT!!!!!!!!!!

kaa0901 · 15/03/2008 20:42

the joys of parenthood. DS is always trying to grab his the minute the nappy tags are loosened and he has been since he was about 3months old! DH just says "that's my boy"

FrannyandZooey · 15/03/2008 20:44

ah ds did this when we got rid of nappies age 3
he did it CONSTANTLY
never does it now

Miggsie · 15/03/2008 20:47

...well there's generally ONE "creepy guy who stands by the water cooler and plays with his balls a lot" in every major company but there's no reason to think he may be yours...

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