My 4 yr old ds sleeps terribly. He always has done. Unlike my 6yr old dd and 18 mth old ds, who sleep brilliantly. I have had sleep therapy through Millpond twice which was miraculous and solved everything in about 2 weeks. He responded well to reward schemes and gradual retreat from his room methods. But we are in the throes of yet another relapse and I'm just beginning to wonder whether I should just thrown in the towel and let him sleep in our room with us on a mattress on the floor. I've heard from several mums that this worked for them, but I'd be interested to know your views. He goes to sleep like an angel and wakes always around midnight then on and off all night long. He is like a heat seeking missile, searching me out, wherever I am, and once he finds me he is fine. He is otherwise really happy at home and nursery. I am full-time mum and he has no reason to feel insecure. His teachers tell me he is popular. He still has temper tantrums (exhaustion usually) but nothing that I can't cope with. I am a gentle mum and have always gone to him when he cries in the night. I can't bear to leave him and he can now vocalise that he feels sad/unhappy/angry in the night. I really hope he is going through a phase and will eventually grow out of this. Any thoughts gratefully received.