IMO the more experienced the mum, the LESS they tend to do with their kids!
It's the first-borners who get the massage, the baby gym, the tumble-tots, the toddler yoga, the jamboree, the loving home-made purees etc etc.
Second borns get some half-hearted post-bath massage, a lump of playdough and some jar food.
Third and subsequent children are left to roll around on the kitchen floor and eat dog biscuits.