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My anxiety or is my baby showing signs of autism

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Kay98765 · 17/05/2023 21:48

I know this subject comes up alot but feel I’m driving myself mad with worry and instead of enjoying my gorgeous baby I’m scrutinising everything he’s doing :(
He’s now 10.5 months and always been a 0-100 kind of baby.
I feel he’s almost like a different baby at home than when out in public.
He’s fairly smiley and curious and into everything at home, once out he’s barely cracks a smile no matter how hard people try - I now call him Mr Serious!
He can babble, but only ‘bababa’ but it’s very intermittent and not very often. He doesn’t really like to be cuddled and is obsessed with anything that spins, he’ll try and spin anything that’s circular, even if it doesn’t and is obsessed with the washing machine.
Although he occasionally enjoys ‘peekaboo’ he never initiates it, doesn’t wave and likes to fiddle with things such as laces, or toggles on a hoody.
He does have fairly good eye contact and responds to his name mostly,
Physically he’s on track with milestones but socially I do worry. We have friends with babies similar ages and I feel like he seems different to them when we’re together, they seem much more content and love the interaction whereas my baby is often clingy, whingey and doesn’t seem to be enjoying himself.

Am I overthinking this? Or right to be concerned?
We are still waiting for our 8-12 month review by the HV

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Kay98765 · 18/05/2023 07:32

Also to add.. He blows raspberries all the time. I know raspberries are normal but sometimes they are so excessive and ALL day.
Not sure if this is why he isn’t babbling much as too busy blowing raspberries!

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SiouxsieSiouxStiletto · 18/05/2023 08:00

I'd say that spinning is a perfectly normal play schema at this age and nothing in your post suggests that you have anything to worry about. And I've definitely not heard of a baby initiating Peekabo Wink

If the babbling is worrying you, I'd do this SLT progress checker. It will tell you if he needs some additional support and there is a helpline.

If it does say that he needs some support, I'd call the HV and ask her to refer him for a hearing test and to do the Ages & Stages for 10 months.

Pregnantanduncomfortable · 21/05/2023 12:48

I could have written this myself! I’ve actually just written a post as I have the same concerns as you. However my DD isn’t clingy and will go to anyone (mostly women) and doesn’t care if I’m there or not.
The worrying is awful. Hope someone can offer some advice but you’re not alone xx

Kay98765 · 22/05/2023 08:08

Thanks for your replies. I will take a look at the SLT progress checker today!
We all just want the best for our babies don’t we so hard not to worry. But I know I often overthink things too!

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MommyDe · 25/12/2023 01:10

@Kay98765
Hello,
Hope you're doing fine. I'm going through same kind of anxiety and was wondering how things turned out for your baby.
Have a nice day!

Chzm · 28/05/2024 18:33

Kay98765 · 22/05/2023 08:08

Thanks for your replies. I will take a look at the SLT progress checker today!
We all just want the best for our babies don’t we so hard not to worry. But I know I often overthink things too!

Hey how is your baby doing now please? X

Chzm · 29/05/2024 18:19

MommyDe · 25/12/2023 01:10

@Kay98765
Hello,
Hope you're doing fine. I'm going through same kind of anxiety and was wondering how things turned out for your baby.
Have a nice day!

How is your baby now please x

Kay98765 · 30/05/2024 07:53

As an update my baby is doing absolutely fine! Feel silly for worrying so much. He still is very much a 0-100 toddler and gets easily overstimulated in busy places but developmentally no concerns at all. Happy, chatty and loves going to nursery. Hope that helps

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