My 10 year old daughter has been the target of relational aggression in the past. It was very hard to spot at the time, but once you know, you know.
This school year she has regained her confidence and slowly integrated herself back into her previous friendship circle.
However one girl in particular, just will not let up with her passive bullying. She was instrumental in excluding my daughter last time. She also only targets my daughter. I've offered to speak to the child's mum, but my daughter was adamant that I did not do this. She said if it gets worse then we can have a rethink.
Totally fair, but after advice in how she should tackle the constant sly comments.
I'm proud of my girl for handling it herself, but even as adults we can struggle with these manipulative characters, so tips much appreciated.