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Is this normal for 16 Mo

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gemssy · 04/02/2023 10:23

Hi all

My 16 Month old DS is really struggling in certain "areas"

For example no matter how hard we try to teach him the animal noises I.e when pointing at a cat we say "meow meow" in his mind all the animals still say "moo" if he points at a dog/ pig/ cow/ any animal he would say "moo moo"
I have noticed that all the other nct babies can correctly make the different noises for all animals. It makes me really sad that he doesn't seem to get it.
We even bought some animal toys and introduced one a day.
Yesterday we showed him a sheep and saying "baa baa" but nope he keeps calling it a moo moo

Is this normal? Should I be worried?

He says "moo moo" "daddy" mama" and rarely his older brothers name.

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Boneweary · 04/02/2023 10:40

I remember having very similar worries about DS at this age - like you, I was comparing him to my NCT friends. People tell you not to but comparisons can be helpful.

In my case I remember freaking out a bit that we were massively behind because my friends DD was happily pointing to a frog, rabbit, baa baaing and moo mooing while DS … wasn’t! He didn’t even moo so you’re ahead of us! He only had about five words at that point.

I don’t know exactly when it started but I also know I found 16-18 months quite tricky behaviour wise, lots of tantrums, started being quite rough with other children (he had been a very gentle, chilled baby) so it came as a shock!

I know I was finding him a lot easier at the 19 month mark. He definitely had around 30 words at that point so somehow he must have acquired a lot in that period. By his second birthday (mid December) he had about seventy and was using sentences - in an extremely basic way - ‘bye bye daddy, hello baby, mummy here’ - but he is following a completely normal trajectory, although I know a lot of toddlers with a more sophisticated vocabulary!

The main thing you’ll be asked to check for as he approaches 18-24 months is understanding . It’s harder when they don’t talk as much as DS was never much of a pointer either, which always had me worried! He does point but on his terms Grin if you said to him at 18 months ‘point to froggy’ in a book he wouldn’t. So I didn’t know whether he understood or not. He did and I realised once when my SIL told me that a toy ‘needs to be unscrewed at the bottom and then it works better’ and DS started unscrewing it!

Honestly, it’s easy to get hung up on these things. I did. I worried I’d done parenting all ‘wrong’ somehow. I remember that Easter buying so many books and endlessly pointing things out and that’s obviously not a bad thing but it took the enjoyment out of it. The main thing with books is they like hearing your voice, being close to you and it builds a positive association with books and reading. I wish you both well, I think you’ll be fine Flowers

(We are now having this with colours - everything is green Wink of course some of the wonder toddlers in my group know all the colours, but we’ll get there!)

gemssy · 04/02/2023 13:27

@Boneweary thank you for your encouragement! I hope DS will get there. Like you say it's hard to not compare your child to others especially when 8 out of 9 can name the sounds for each animal 🥹
Hopefully by being consistent he will get there. It's such a big worry at this point xx

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