Ghosted by friends

[Richmond212]

This past year I've had to cut ties with 2 friends that treated me badly. Which has hurt alot. But I've got through it. My bestest friend in the whole world for 25 years has started to act differently also lately. Not replying to messages. Not liking or commenting on anything on social media (birthday posts, covid posts ect) . She has always admitted that I've made more effort than her but she's grateful and appreciates our friendship but lately it's different like she has totally checked out. I know she drinks alot which I can't do with having a family . If this friendship ends I'll have nobody else outside family which really scares me. I don't know why. I guess I'm feeling very confused and starting to think I'm doing something wrong with so many friends not being bothered about me

Is there a reason that you can't drink with having a family @Richmond212?

Surely you can have nights out?

Well I can drink. But not to the extent I used to my hangovers are awful. My friend I'm talking about has a drink problem and openly admits this. I think it's gotten worse the past 2 years aswell

Also last time I organised to get together she didn't turn up

That's such a shame. If she's not turning up, could you give her a call and see if she's ok?

One of my DFs recently had a bit of an attitude with me because I wasn't keeping in touch. I was in Hospital fighting for breath. Once we'd talk do it through we were both fine but it was nearly the end of a long friendship.

Ive mentioned over the let downs quite a lot this year but nothing is really changing. When I do message her she leaves me on read or doesnt read it at all. Then will say sorry to me when I do get through .. I've taken a step back for a few weeks to see if she got intouch but nothing. I feel so hurt but feel there's nothing else I can do now

Also her excuse(2 days later) for not turning up that night was she was too drunk 😣