Hi
I have a 2 year old who I have shared custody of after taking my ex to court to win access. I have had regular access since birth and for the last 12 months we have had the most wonderful relationship with weekends together and holidays filled with fun and good memories. My son and I have built a brilliant relationship and when he is with me he is very reliant on me and we have a great time together.
3 weeks ago when I went to pick up my son when he saw me he started to cry and was very clingy to his mum. He refused to come with me for his weekend with me and would not get in the car seat. This has continued when I see him so I have had to Doran's time with him at my ex's house . He is totally fine with me playing and going to the park together but his instant when he sees me is to cry. I FaceTimed him this morning and when he saw me he cried. I know he is young and people say don't take it personally but it's breaking my heart to see him have this reaction. I don't know what to do I don't want to force him to come with me but I don't want to reduce seeing him or have a long term future only seeing him at my ex's house. I am finding this all really hard and would be grateful if any advice. Thank you