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Single mum of 2,and pregnant

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Sophie98 · 03/12/2022 11:50

Hello
i am 24y old
i become a single mum 1m ago
and i find it very hard as i lost everything what i have,after my children of course.
i lost my best friend,my partner and with him i lost also myself .
i dont have any friends
i have my mum and my sister
and they have their house 5mn away from me
but i have problems with my mum from when i was small
so i really dont want to have too much contact with her and also she doesnt wantto help me with the kids
my sister is working too much
and she doesnt have much time for me
so i am really alone
i have my children
2,9m old boy and 4y old girl
i found out i am pregnant 1m ago
and at the moment i am 3months and 2weeks pregnant
i am not working i receive only benefits
i dont have my own home
i live in 1bedroom rented flat
i dont know how i will afford one more baby
i dont have possibility to take care of 3children
but i am feeling really sorry if i have to think for abortion because they baby is big
is not very big
but i looked on internet and i see is 8/9cm
so i dont know
what to do
to keep the baby
or to make abortion ?
please any advice will be helpful as i am so lost at this moment i dont know where i am
i am so stressed
and i dont know how to continue my life without my ex partner
i really miss him
but i know he will not come back
so if i decide to keep the baby i will need to look after all 3 children
alone
without any help
Thank you in advance

OP posts:
SoInLuv · 04/12/2022 18:31

Hello Sophie, I'm so sorry to hear it.
I'd advise this: speak to your midwife or GP about it, maybe they can direct you to right support. You need it in your situation.
Nobody can tell you to keep the baby or to abort it, it has to be your decision. If you get the right support (after speaking to your health professional) you'd be able to decide what to do.
Sending you lots of well wishes dear x

shinesparklesmile · 08/05/2023 21:52

@Sophie98 hope you are all well x

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