So basically my son says his special person is Mammar. He sees my mum maybe once a fortnight. He says he loves Mammar lots and lots. This broke my heart but I said ok and say well you know what I love you, your my special person etc
The other day was next level though. So we saw my mum and he asked to go to her house for some milk, basically we go round for a cup of tea. She said no as she was tired. Then when she was driving off all he was screaming was Mammar I love you, Mammar I love you over and over again
I later found out from my sister she went to her friends for coffee she had planned earlier in the week.
Anyway me and DH went through all the things that different with her. She doesn't take him out or anything so we ruled all those things out. One thing that is different is she has him to stay without his sisters so might benefit from some time with just us playing a game, where's Wally, a film or whatever he wants. So we decided he can have a couple of hours on a Friday night. He loved it last week, watched a bit of England, ate some sweets and played operation.
Didn't mention my mum again until yesterday, before it was every day. I first let him FaceTime and ring her but she would say she needs the toilet or something to eat so would put the phone down and I just see disappointment in his face. I'm hoping this isn't ruining his emotions
Anything else we can do? We don't have a support network. My mum is a need basis, so like if it is a child free wedding she would look after them. She wouldn't see spending time with him as a need
Thankyou x