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Birdie40 · 30/01/2008 16:33

My dd is soon to be 3 and 3 weeks ago, started one morning a week (2.5hrs) at the village preschool. We did a couple of taster sessions together and I was really pleased as she had a wonderful time, the staff were patient, warm, experienced and caring and there were lots of great things for the kids to play at and learn about - many local mums had been really keen to recommend it and all in all, it's a really fabulous place.

However, despite trotting happily off and playing enthusiastically all morning, when the children sit down for "circle time" 15 minutes before Mums and Dads and Grannies come to pick them up, my dd bursts into tears. She cries when I walk through the door and today, she was really weepy for about half an hour after I got her home. When you ask her, she'll tell you she loves playgroup and asks to go again, but I can't fathom her reaction to the end of the session.

Is she trying to tell me something? I guess she could be tired this time as she slept badly last night, but I'd be glad to hear from anybody else who has known a child to be upset this way and any suggestions as to how I can help her? It's heartbreaking to see her distressed and if she was like it at the start we'd take her out and try again later in the year, but she's really having a good time right until the end of the morning....?

Help!

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bigdonna · 30/01/2008 17:10

maybe she does not want to go home,because shes having such a lovely time

bubblagirl · 30/01/2008 17:21

my ds done this alot and has stopped now had great time when there and when i turned up cried like he'd had most terrible time think it was an attention thing from being left happy to see me and being really tired

he is 2.7 and has just stopped doing it all, smiles now when going in and coming out its just a matter of getting used to the routines

i really praised even when crying wow you were such a big boy looks like you were having so much fun etc

i would say its a phase the one thast makes us feel guilty for leaving them when really they love it lol

sounds to me when sat in the circle she realises fun time with her friends is about to end and will have to go home maybe arrange for some play dates to come round for an hour

sorry not much help but i would think she like my ds will grow out of it

Birdie40 · 30/01/2008 22:08

Thank you ladies - yep, I think (I hope!), it's just that she's not wanting to leave the others and all those wonderful toys. There are only two more sessions to half term and then we're planning for her to go for two mornings a week from then, so I guess that might help her if she's really liking it. She's got two of her new friends from playschool coming to her birthday party on Friday so hopefully we can see a bit more of them - we're a bit isolated here and we'll have to work hard to make sure she doesn't get cut off from the friends she makes.

Does it get any easier when they get older and can tell you what's wrong or do they just yell at you by then and tell you you're ruining their lives?!

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