Delicate subject -Inability to orgasm

[shyerthanusual]

since having my babies I am less able to orgasm (assisted or otherwise!)
It's not about being too tired or not in the mood, I just mean the simple mechanics of my body don't seem to work as they used to. I am in my late 30s.
Anyone experienced this?

salalex, yes I used to quite a lot (successfully) but even that does not work well now!

Go and get your hormone levels checked, There was an article in the telegraph this week about a woman with the same problem and it was all to do with her hormone levels. Apparently it is quite common and something can be done about it! Go and see your GP, they will refer you to a sex therapist and hopefully you would get it sorted.

Life too short not to orgasm!

What's an orgasm?

Actually no, I'm not going to get involved in this discussion at all! My mouth is firmly tied!

Rhubarb...I think its

1. a living being; any form in which mutually interdependent parts maintain the various vital processes necessary for life to exist. 2. a biological form considered as an entity, such as an animal, plant, or fungus.

or is that an organism

I thought it was a cocktail - can't remember what goes in it though - actually I think it's called a screaming orgasm

Mine seem to have got better since dd - hope that doesn't mean Im incredibly fertile all the time