I went away with my partner for a weekend break and left my 8 month old baby at home with grandparents. He spent 2 nights with one set of grandparents and the other 2 nights at our home with his other Nana (my partners mum). They have a lovely bond and he sees her quite a lot. I have been to a couple of weddings and spent the odd night away from him but never more then one night so this was a first. I missed him sooo much and couldn’t wait to see him, expecting him to be very excited I was a little sad when he acted as though I was a stranger and when I held him he kept putting his arms back out for his nana. It’s lovely he feels safe and happy with her snd obviously had a lovely weekend but I feel devastated. I spend every day with him since he was born and we have a great bond I’ve never doubted it, but it was as though he really didn’t care I ever left and was happier without me? He was the same with my partner, just really not that bothered and kept putting his arms out to nana to take him. As the days gone on I feel like he might have remembered I am mum and he has been back to his usual self (crying when I left the room for a second) but I can’t help but question if I actually matter :( I feel like I never want to leave him for a night again if it’s that easy for them to forget you! Sorry this sounds dramatic but it wasn’t the reunion I had in mind! X