When my 3 yo DS gets pushed by other children, even younger ones, he never fights back. He would just cry and complain.
Today he has almost had his eye poked by another child at the playground. That child just came close to my DS and started pressing on DS's eye with one finger.
I cannot tell if this is something parents taught to that child because both parents were there watching and did not stop the violent boy. They just grabbed him, said "sorry" and ran away.
My DS is quite confident at climbing and other activities on playgrounds so I would like him to have more independence and not to hover over him all the time at playgrounds. But until he learns to defend himself somehow I am not confident to stay at distance at playgrounds.
I have looked at local karate and similar classes and the youngest age they accept is 4. I will phone them on Monday to see if they accept 3yo. I think it is better if he learns to defend himself before starting the reception next year.
I doubt just telling my DS to push/kick assaulters will work. I am thinking of practicing some pretend fights with me or his dad and make sure he learns how to respond.
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How to teach 3 year old DS to defend himself against other children?
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Lily7050 · 04/06/2022 23:40
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