Our 36 month old has recently had an autism diagnosis which we had done privately, he's been referred to CAMHS for assessment but the waiting time in Glasgow is about 2 years.
The main issues for our wee boy are:
-communication delay (he is verbal, but doesn't use language properly and displays echolalia, lack of joint attention)
-repetitive behaviours (asking the same question, pointing out the same things)
-no real play (not interested in toys)
-some sensory issues
-lack of eye contact (it's on his terms)
-interest is in things more than people
However:
-he sleeps well
-eats well
-seems OK with change of routine
-no meltdowns/aggression
-generally compliant
-seems to enjoy nursery
The autism expert didn't seem to think we should be looking at anything beyond speech & language input, she suggested that play therapy for a child who is not interested in pay could be harmful. However this goes against every piece of advice I've read in every book which suggests that play therapy can be good to help with social skills and speech & language. I've never thought of therapy as forcing a child to do something either. Also, isn't it the case that support for autistic children as early as possible can help them while the brain is more open to new ideas? Parents I've spoken to have been very positive about various play therapies out there.
I was suprised at the advice we were given and would be interested to hear the experiences of any other parents out there.
Thanks!