I have 3 yo and 3 month old. They are quite possibly the hardest kids I've ever known. I'm not the only one who thinks it. Everyone comments on them. Eldest is wild, doesn't listen, constantly hyper or screaming and miserable. 3 month old doesn't stop crying all day every day. I have a partner who doesn't help much especially with the baby. I am so stressed and fed up, I'm on anti depressants. I'm embarrassed by them. I resent them because other children in the family look like angels compared. We try to be strict and stick to our rules but it doesn't make a difference with 3 yo. I have a headache every single day from the crying. I honestly don't know what to do anymore. I am considering just going back to work early and full time so I don't have to put up with this.