Lo is a few weeks away from turning 4. He's had numerous assessment with hv and awaiting a paediatrician appt for ? Asd/asperges. He has a speech delay, is not potty trained and at times challenging behaviour. His most recent being if me and Dh try to talk to each other he screams, a high pitch constant scream. We have tried everything even the naughty step it won't work. Because of his speech delay reward charts don't work. The potty training is becoming increasing stressful and he's seen the gp which they said nothing medical. Another thing he does is if we talk to him or each other he starts shouting a word we've used over and over and over and throws a tantrum if you don't repeat it over. I'm ashamed to say but I'm not enjoying his company currently. I feel all I do is lose my temper and count down until bedtime. Its causing friction with me and dh as we can't have a conversation without him being there, he just shouts and screams until we stop talking. Even moving to another room doesn't help. We're awaiting his appt until then I don't know what to do. He starts school this year and nursery have already said he will struggle with the basic tasks. I can't cope and genuinely happier when he's at nursery and I'm at work as I get a break and that is terrible I know! What if ant help is available for parents. There are other things he does but currently these are the ones i cant cope with. I just feel I'm struggling. Dh is fantastic and helps loads but it's still getting me down. What can I do?