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Tips on getting son to wear different clothes

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Wednesdayafternoon · 24/01/2022 13:31

So basically my son is five years old. He's always had some sensory issues with certain types of textures, clothes, shoes etc But I am just starting to wonder whether it is more a form of rebellion him refusing to wear certain clothes and check stairs as oppose him actually have an issue with them. What happens is I will try and get him to wear say for example a different type of trainer and he will start crying, rolling across the floor getting himself really upset and angry. I never want to force him to wear something he's not comfortable in, that is not the type of parent that I am. However, he will go into school and wear his jumper, trousers, school shoes. He will wear his joggers for PE and his PE trainers. Don't get me wrong he wears them a bit tentatively and he can be a bit awkward getting dressed but he does wear them. So what do I do? Do I keep trying to push
Him wearing different clothes and shoes or do I just keep what we are doing now? The reason why I ask is because I'm getting really fed up of him wearing the same things all the time. I would love to see him dressed up smartly in fresh new clothes. But I am just having such an issue in getting him to wear different clothes particular shoes!
It is driving me crazy :( I literally dread getting him dressed in the morning. I'm starting to dread certain occasions because I know that I'm going to have to get him to wear different clothes. It's just really getting me down now.

He is a really lovely little boy. 80% of the time he is absolutely perfect to manage his emotions really well. But the moment that something doesn't go his way or he gets upset about something he just explodes so it is very much a matter of picking my battles!

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Confusedandworried321 · 24/01/2022 14:29

It definitely sounds like sensory issues. My DS definitely has some sensory issues around clothes, he only wears socks when he’s also wearing shoes, otherwise they are straight off when he gets home. He often fusses that they “bother” him.

His first choice of trousers is always joggers, or leggings, and he also likes dungarees, but he hates jeans. Says they “bother” him because they need pulling up all the time (they do in fairness, he has such a slender waist) or the pockets bother him when he sits down. I can coax him into a pair for a party or other “smart” occasion but it’s a battle and I often wonder why I’ve bothered, especially as it’s a real mix of clothes at the party anyway, some boys in shorts/ sports gear and some in waistcoats etc Grin

What is your DS willing to wear? I have found explaining to mine that joggers on fine when we’re doing xyz but sometimes we need to dress a bit smarter. It’s not smooth sailing but at least it feels like a compromise. I wish he wouldn’t always choose joggers though, I hate them!

Wednesdayafternoon · 24/01/2022 16:50

My son will literally only wear leggings, and now he will only wear blue ones. I'm so sick of looking at them!!!
He wears his school pants and joggers ok and in the summer he wears shorts but just blue leggings atm :(

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