What do you eat? Do you eat together? My 2yo will eat what he sees us eating. If it's apples, he will want apples, if it's marshmallows, he wants marshmallows.
I'd not make fuss over any food. Offer, if she says no say OK. I'd not actively offer sweets but offer snacks like berries, fruit and maybe boil veg into something to blend onto pasta?
Not sure, I hate veg so not a great example (leave this to veg-dad I do).
Nursery is great in this, they cook some healthy stuff (the look on their face when I said he can have anything but not too much pizza - like pizza, the horror, we do not cook things like that - whatever). Basically nursery do the healthy, at home he has the less healthy but as we eat quite healthy for the general Uk population I am not fussed.
The one thing I do know is - do not make a deal of anything food-related. You want, you don't want, whatever. It's pavement to hell if you make food special, good, bad, a treat or anything in between.
Also here, my son has two three four bottles of formula with cow milk and it has zero effect on his appetite :-D He also drinks water from the bath tub, cat bowl or horse through so what do I know though.