My 5yo has disabilities and we have been having meetings with the school (sen meetings) and we have an early help plan and that’s have said we should try the children with disabilities team involved they offer respite and and grants. Now to be honest I’m not all that interested in this as I have both grandparents to look after my 5yo so I can take my other children for days out, or they do spend time with all of kids and often have them sleep over. We plan things good we take the kids out a lot. So now this team arnt answering or getting involved and the school are so desperate for them too they are now saying I need a social worker to help get the team involved, now Iv looked and Googled and it does say you almost always need a social worker to get this team involved so social services rang me and said they would come out and do an assessment as my 9yo is very anxious and displaying his anxiety at school and they think it’s all because of his 5yo brother! So they said they won’t need to be involved for long and I know it’s just until this other team gets involved but now I haven’t slept since last week, I have my sen meeting this morning and I’m so worried and I’m going to tell them Iv changed my mind and no longer want this team involved as they offer things I already have which is respite, am I doing the right thing? I think my poor 9yo gets his anxiety form me and atm my mind is going 1million mph over this social services thing and I know my children are loved and well looked after and the school are just picking up faults to try and get social services involved as they rang them before the Christmas holiday and social services rang me and said my 9yo was tired at school and very emotional I explained my 5yo had a week off his sleeping meds which he has to do once every so often as his body gets to used to them and they stop working so we all had barely any sleep that week and my 9yo kept complaining of a boy at school, social services said that was absolutely fine and they were not taking this any further as they only get involved when parents are not safe guarding their kids and she said I’m doing an absolute fine job of parenting. Now the first week back the school have rang them again!! The school have really upset and annoyed me I feel I don’t trust them anymore and I feel betrayed.