Just that really.
He's 4 and he's a lovely boy. He's so much fun, loves to be cheeky and fun and loves to make others laugh.
I know he's a lovely boy but he can be really unkind and doesn't seem to care about what he says to others.
I don't want to expect more from him then I should fit his age, I know he's still young, but it really upsets me that he just isn't bothered about upsetting anyone else. Today at school in the morning he was shouting "I don't want to play with , I don't want to talk to him" and * just looked so upset. And home, my neice was round and he kept laughing at her drawings and said he didn't like them. I just feel so sad about this. I pay him compliments all the time, show him so much love and affection and between the two of us he does show it back to me in his own way but he can just be so unkind to others. I can tell me neice doesn't really enjoy being around him, and his school friend who was his little bestie didn't want to play with him today. I've tried talking to him about consequences, I've bought books about being kind but nothing seems to be slinging in. Any ideas at all?