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School dinners child refusing to eat them

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Misscbu17 · 15/09/2021 21:42

Hi,

My 4 year old girl started reception last week and this week is the first full week and has presented some issues.

She adores school but is refusing to get dressed and get to this week due to her panicking about school dinners.

Some background, she is a fussy eater (beige eg chips, pizza, fish fingers, seeded bread, cheese, dried fruit, raspberries, peas etc) so doesn’t enjoy wet food eg proper meals even though I’ve struggled for years to introduce it.

As you schools are hot on giving them a proper dinner for lunch, however, this is really putting pressure on my daughter and she is saying that’s why she isn’t wanting to go!

I said to the school I wanted them to keep encouraging her eg they often eat things in front of their peers that they wouldn’t elsewhere, but as the days go on it’s getting worse and she’s distraught and hyperventilating. I try to be really breezy and speak sense to her but she’s in such a state about it.

The school do give her the pack lunch I do each morning but only after she’s tried the dinner!

Has anyone experienced this? It’s exhausting x

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DominicRaabsTravelAgent · 16/09/2021 07:50

Honestly, I'd talk to her Teacher and explain what an affect it's having on her.

windy2909 · 16/09/2021 21:52

I’m a teacher and know of many children who bring a packed lunch to school every day and never have a school lunch. Some children are just fussy eaters. Hopefully she’ll grow out of it as she gets older but in the meantime I wouldn’t be pushing the school meals if they’re causing her distress.

Misscbu17 · 17/09/2021 10:29

Thank you for responses. I’ve been telling her teachers for the past week my concerns but they kept pushing the school dinners and not given her the packed lunches I made.

I did contact the head and they’ve finally listened to me and yesterday she had a packed lunch and today she went in with one and they’ve promised not to give her hot dinners. She went into school today like a new person, what a relief!

I just feel at present now is not the right time to put pressure on her to have hot dinners .

Thanks for all of your support xx

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