DS1 - again............

[NAB3littlemonkeys]

Me to DH: Can you set the beeper and everything that isn't tided away will go in the bin.
DS I'm not tidying up.
Me: okay, go up to bed, everything of yours will go in the bin
DS well, that's just wasting your money.

We have told him he loses all his toys and they will go in the roof

DS - You don't love me then

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Sorry, I didn't make myself clear. He leant in to me when I said his dad was going to read to him. I didn't refuse him a cuddle.

I apologise for my previous comment, I read the thread at a bad time and commented thoughtlessly and cruelly - I'm sorry NAB.

Thanks for that. It did rather hit me hard.

Hey Nab

Sounds like you did the right thing.

You ok? You mentioned a beverment? Hope you are ok.

Think kids juts love pushing boundries all the time. particulaly when they know that you love then unconditionally!

Oh and its coming up to xmas!

Hope you are ok?

Well, I went in to him when I went up to bed and gave him 2 kisses and told him I loved him, even though he was fast asleep. Made me feel better. I just wish I could explain how much I love this child.

I am doing the best I can. My childhood was pants. I didn't have any family and I moved constantly so have no role models. I am trying.

SNS, thank you very much for asking. Yes, we lost a much loved family member at the weekend and we are all in shock about it and very upset.