Ds2 is having a hard time with a couple of x good friends who are pushing him around and being very mean. I've witnessed this myself so I know he's not over-reacting. Problem is he is very quiet and shy and just meekly lets them do it. He was hysterical at the suggestion that I have a word with teacher or parents. He has begged to be allowed to deal with it himself and I do feel it's better for his self esteem if he is able to handle it without my interference. (But I will be in school like a shot if nothing improves fast,) We've discussed being assertive, practised role play of him standing up for himself when pushed about.
Any other ideas for helping quiet kids stand up for themselves without being aggressive?