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4 year old hurting cats

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alittlefishy · 30/06/2021 23:06

Not my DC but a neighbour. I've seen her a few times pulling a cats tail, throwing things at it, trying to hit it and generally being rough.

Obviously I rushed over to tell her to stop and she looked a bit blank.

My question is - why would she do this? Seems a nice kid in other respects and plays nicely with my DC.

The only oddity with her is that she's very sensory - into everything, touches everything and seems impulsive.

What would make a child hurt a cat?

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alittlefishy · 09/07/2021 20:44

Happened again twice today and it's freaking me out so I'm bumping in hope someone can explain

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ZooKeeper19 · 12/07/2021 16:15

No idea but I'd give talking to to parents and make it very clear it hurts. Like when she dos it to the cats, they hurt. I'd have a real convo with her if that's possible tell her the cats are in pain and scared and that it's a very unnice thing to do to a living creature and that we are supposed to be kind and protect the smaller beings around us. Maybe show her how to play with a cat? Maybe she does not know. No idea really. I think it comes from observing others (she says as her 2yo hunts their own cat around the flat with a rubber building block trying to smack it...). I show mine how to play nicely with the cats, I hope one day they will get it.

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