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Classroom bully

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DeeleysMum · 16/05/2021 18:56

My son goes to a single form entry primary school in our village. It used to be a good school and now has gone right down hill because of the amount of bullying that goes on. Hes been subjected to numerous attacks from various kids in his year, there is a high percentage of unruly and disruptive kids in his class who lash out at anyone and everyone, including teachers.

On Friday a girl, who has done things to him in the past, whacked him across the face with a skipping rope with such force that it whipped across his cheek around his neck and upside his cheek, almost like a lasso. He was given ice packs but 6 hours after the incident he still had several welts on his face. This was utterly deliberate as she was seeing 'revenge' on him for a name calling incident earlier in the week, for which he apologised. The school then allowed the other child to pair up with my son at an after school club while the Head looked on.

I have written to the school giving them a week to respond about the anti bullying procedures, and then I will go to Ofsted and the DoE. What I want to know is do I have a case to take this to the police due to the seriousness of the attack? This is a bad school with several extremely bad bullies per year and the head just turns a blind eye and wants to redeem the bad kids while the good kids suffer. Thanks in advance

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AladdinMum · 16/05/2021 21:39

Shocked that something like that could happen in a primary school without it being a major incident - it sounds like it will take a change of head to fix the problems in this school, so potentially years. If at all possible I would seriously be thinking of changing school in a neighboring village...

DeeleysMum · 16/05/2021 22:10

@AladdinMum sadly our local schools are so oversubscribed due to the building of over 12000 houses in a couple of square miles. It’s just awful. I’d love to move him, and judging by the amount of support I’ve had from the other class mums, I’d be in a big queue. I feel utterly stuck. It’s a good job he’s such a forgiving boy, much more so than me I’m afraid. 😢

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DadAManger · 17/05/2021 20:26

It’s really hard, given that it sounds as if the supervision within the school sounds (from your description) so poor now. Almost like ‘Lord of the Flies’ when the teachers are looking away? You could take your concerns far higher as you suggest, but it will take so long and meanwhile your DS is still there. I should look at independent prep schools that have the right policies and approach in place - you would need to evaluate this yourself, but of course can speak to others and look online to see (as best as you can) the approach of the school. Good luck!

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