Hi Folks,
We have a 22 month old and think there might be some signs of autism, but some things which are not. Being a first time parent, we do that thing of looking at things on-line and self-diagnosing.
Anyway, this is what we've noticed:
-he does say words, sometimes in context, some out of context
-doesn't say two words
-eye contact is less than it used to be (it is there, but very much on his terms)
-doesn't show joy/excitement when I come home, although he will smile at mum, run to her briefly, but then do his own thing
-does't draw our attention to things which interest him
-doesn't invite us to engage in play (although he enjoys when we chase him and laughs)
-doesn't get upset if either of us appears unhappy (he used to cry if either of us pulled a face showing we were sad)
-when in the park, if we were to walk away, he'd be oblivious to us (although his mum says he occasionally looks back)
-some repeat behaviour
However:
-he does indicate of he wants something by reaching with his arms (but not point) if he wants something
-sleeps well
-not a fussy eater
-he does smile
-no meltdowns, occasional tantrums
-he likes seeing children, runs upto them sometimes, but then does his own thing
-no obsessive behaviour
Wondering if this is all fairly normal stuff or if there's something going on? The health visitor is coming out and we are going down the route of private SLT.
Thanks!