Can anyone give me some advice please? My son is 3.3 years old. I have another son of 1. I am finding it really hard to get my son clean. He understands but just doesn’t get there! We have tried everything including rewards and praise. He has now taken to taking off his nappy to poo all over the floor of his bedroom. He doesn’t seem to understand this isn’t acceptable. This is usually when we put him to bed for a sleep when over tired. He is also shouting at us and answering back. He can be absolutely adorable as is a soft nature. He has always been a good eater but recently is going backwards spitting his food and playing with it. I’m at my wits end with worry especially with his toilet and pooing in his bedroom. He actually handed his nappy to my partner. My concern is I know nothing about his fathers family background. There has been no contact since I was pregnant. I’m concerned there might be a hidden medical reason for this. My partner and I have been together since my son was a tiny baby ... he is his father in every sense of the word. We have gone out of our way to give as much attention etc especially after my second son was born. Can anyone give me any advice on how to deal with this please? Him trashing his room and pooing has happened twice this week. I’m worried there might be a hidden issue. How do I get him clean? Thanks for your help.