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My January born 2 year old does not say yes.

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cheesebubble · 28/03/2021 07:14

His language is not as advanced as many other children his age (I know because I spend a lot of time with children his age or even younger).

It's come on a lot and I'm not concerned about his language development as such to be honest. I'm very proud of him. He grows up bilingual although he only really speaks English but does understand German well.

Anyway, when we ask him: do you want a
biscuit, or do you want to go outside?, he'd never say yes but reacts to it by either repeating the word: biscuit or he'd go to the cupboard and then points and makes the sort of noise that he wants it now haha

When he hears garden, he'd then get his shoes and point to the key box saying keys keys, getting super excited but he simply wouldn't respond with yes.

I might be silly here but is this a cause for concern or is everyone just different and it will come? X

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BunnyRuddington · 28/03/2021 14:15

Mine aren't Bilingual but I've heard that they can generally be a bit slower to talk. I think there might be a Bilingual section somewhere on MN.

LongDivision · 28/03/2021 14:41

You could try giving him an option - "garden yes or no? Yes garden or no garden?" etc to see if you can coax it out of him .

RedGoldAndGreene · 28/03/2021 15:21

Knowing his age - I bet he says no Grin That's partly because kids usually hear "no" more often than "yes" because there's more different ways to say positive statements. Eg you might say "Good Boy!" Or "Super!" instead of "yes, that's good"

I don't think it's something to worry about. You could try and encourage "biscuit please" ?

cheesebubble · 28/03/2021 17:35

@LongDivision he would always repeat the word "garden" or just get excited, he wouldn't say yes. If I ask him can you say yes or ja, he can say both but just doesn't answer with it.

@RedGoldAndGreene 100% knows no and does say it, he always says please. Sometimes I don't understand what he says but I do understand he please 😂😅 I probably should have mentioned that but as that's not the issue I didn't haha

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NoKnit · 28/03/2021 19:45

My children bilingual German/English as well.

At 2 years old my oldest could speak sentences and translate them, to a fashion. I'd give him something tell him to go and tell Daddy or whoever and he would repeat in appropriate language.

My youngest at 2 years old did not speak in either language and was gone 3 before he spoke in sentences.

Every child is different I think you have no cause for concern

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