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16 month old, development delay/ autism?

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Freddiesmum19 · 07/03/2021 15:51

Hi everyone Smile

I am growing more and more concerned about my 16 month DS.
I know he is still young but after reading up on google (I know, I should stay away!) I am afraid it might be autism.
Here is why;
What he doesn’t do at 16 months;
-Doesn’t talk, no words at all, only ga ga ger go. Used to say da da (not relating to DP) but this stopped about 3 months ago.
-Doesn’t respond to his name very often. He does if he’s doing something he knows he shouldn’t, otherwise I would say 2/10 times.

  • doesn’t understand a great deal, can’t go and bring me a ball for a example or give something to mummy. He does understand
No or come to mummy. (Only just)
  • doesn’t bring things to me to
Show me, although he has only just started walking in the last few weeks.)
  • doesn’t wave or point, (were not really a family of pointers but I have started doing it more recently in hope he’ll
Catch on)
  • doesn’t show empathy but think he might be too young for this?

What he does do at 16 months;

  • walk (only in the last few weeks tho. Was also a late crawler at 11 months)
  • does give good eye contact most of
The time especially from a distance
  • does smile back at me
  • does interact loves being chased, peekaboo, loves when I sing to him
  • he squints at certain lights
  • clap but usually
On his terms
  • plays with toys, does occasionally spin wheels on cars but not obsessive
  • come over to you but also more
Than happy To play alone
  • does follow my point when I point to something and say “look”
  • sometimes licks tiles, glass, wood
  • lift his arms up to
Be picked up
  • sometimes puts toys behind his back

I would really appreciate your thoughts, I am
On google and YouTube all
Hours of the day self diagnosing him and I’m going mad. HV coming on Friday. Please done sugarcoat it for me!!

Thanks in advance xxx

OP posts:
HeyDuggeesFavouriteSquirrel · 15/08/2022 15:06

Oh gosh I've just seen your update @Freddiesmum19 . My son is doing really well too! Just turned three and says 4 - 5 word sentences! Lots of gestures, developments also understanding emotions and empathy. Hates it when baby's are crying etc. So happy to hear you're doing well.

Cluelessmum5 · 15/08/2022 23:17

So pleased to read these updates! X

Babynana · 22/10/2022 12:09

Thank you all so much for the updates. Think they are really important.

Charlottie01 · 26/10/2022 22:03

Hello, I have just read this comment although it was posted in March 2021.

I'm curious has your concerns been resolved? I wonder how your son's development is ?
I have a 16 month old and I'm concerned about his communication and language with a lac of gesturing and pointing.

Newmama232 · 27/04/2023 14:37

@Freddiesmum19 hey how is your little boy now? Xx

Vittoria123 · 19/06/2024 10:15

Chocqueen99 · 07/06/2021 16:50

Hi @Freddiesmum19
How is your ds now?
Mine.is 16 months old in about a week & I too am wondering about Autism, he very rarley responds to his name either,.
He doesn't point.
Doesn't wave.
Has only just just started holding 1 arm up when you go to pick him up.
Doesn't follow my point very well I wasn't worried until I started reading about ASD. He is very sociable & communicates well with eye contact
He copy's a lot of what I do he can clap he can play peekaboo he can hi 5 but when I wave he really doesn't copy me sometimes we get a few little wags of the arm. I never realised pointing was such a big thing , I have been trying to teach him 'nose ' an occasionally he will touch with a point to his dad's or my nose.
He says dada doggy & ta but usually with a but if encouragement.
A few months have passed since your post * wondering how your getting on.

Hi
I was wondering how’s your son doing ?
any progress ? 😀

Freddiesmum19 · 19/06/2024 13:35

Hi :)
so my son is now 4, turning 5 in October.
and Is doing incredibly.
He does not have autism- I can have long conversations with him, his vocabulary is incredible. He is at pre school, and is a social butterfly. He’s confident and so caring. Makes amazing eye contact, loves group activities!

OP posts:
Yas1362 · 06/07/2025 11:14

Hi @Freddiesmum19 great to hear that your son is doing so great now. May I ask if he cope or babbled a lot when baby? Like at four five months?

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