Hi,
I'm beginning to have concerns about my toddler.
He is 19 months old, he is friendly and sociable, shares toys/attentions, smiles and laughs, cuddles, gives kisses, shows affection. He can walk, run, climb well. He's doing ok developmentally from what I can see, he has about 10 words and can do animal noises from you saying the animal or from seeing a picture. Can build a tower, play with Duplo and connect it properly, plays with toys in the right way as in knows what's part of a set etc. He's obsessed with diggers, cars and vehicle toys/videos, gets so excited by them.
My concern is what I've wrote in the thread title, it's not always when he's angry, just now we were reading a book and he suddenly pulled a load of hair out his head for seemingly no reason. He does have a bad temper, gets very annoyed if he tries to do something and he can't, and will hit himself in the head, headbutt things or pull hair out when angry and sometimes when he doesn't seem it. If I google it it just flags up autism but I don't notice any other traits.
I haven't seen a health visitor for well over a year due to Covid, I'm just a bit worried I'm not seeking help and he might need it. Can anyone give me any guidance on whether this is usual toddler behaviour or if this needs looking into. I'm a first time mum and don't really know what I need to do.